On Children by Khalil Gibran has been running in my thoughts for a week now. I first came upon his poems when I in high school. His book The Prophet was mentioned in another book I read around the same time. It was depicted as one book of worthy read and wisdom. I was naturally intrigued and looked for this book.
I have read The Prophet after a few poems from Gibran. On Children has since then been etched in my heart. The book is one of my all-time favorites.
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.